Thursday, 9 January 2025

A card for Daisy


Hello to you all.

Yesterday we said a very sad farewell to our Daisy, know in the family as Sweet Daisy May. Fourteen and a half is a very good age for a Lab, but that doesn't make it any easier, she stopped eating about a week ago and nothing would temp her, not even freshly roasted chicken which she loved. She then refused water, became weaker and that dreadful decision had to be made.

When I saw the new theme at Path of Positivity earlier in the week I had no idea what I would create, but yesterday I knew exactly what it would be. I wanted to focus my mind to try and quell the outbursts of tears so this morning started the above card, the first five efforts went into the bin, this one is about right. Daisy was a yellow Lab, but creating that colour on a card is almost impossible, I've tried many times.

The theme at P of P is always Anything Goes with a twist, this month's twist is 'Embrace the unexpected'. Whilst Daisy's arrival was by no means unexpected, the impact she went on to have in our lives was. She became the most trustworthy and reliable friend one could wish for, I don't recall a single time when we needed to chastise her, even as a puppy, she was a remarkable dog and was truly the matriarch of the family and other dogs. Poppy, Holly and Rosa are so subdued and clearly missing her direction.


So Daisy this is for you, it is a card that will never be used, made purely for one purpose. Should anyone wonder, the little phial and label is fur the Vet trimmed from her as a keepsake.

41 comments:

Linby said...

A beautiful keepsake but such a sad reason to make it. RIP Daisy.

Chris said...

Brenda, I'm in tears as I read this, what a lovely tribute to your beautiful Daisy. They are never with us long enough and never forgotten. xxx

Pöydän kulmalla näpertelijä said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful tribute.

Kath said...

A beautiful card for such a sad loss.
Kath x

meg said...

So sorry for your loss Brenda,a beautiful card to commemorate a faithful friend and member of your family.

KarinsArtScrap said...

sorry for your loss Brenda you have made a beautiful and sweet card......gr karin

ScrappyHorses said...

Oh Brenda, what a beautiful tribute to your sweet Daisy. Our 4-legged friends definitely do bring a great deal of unexpected love and joy into our lives. Thank you for sharing such a special piece and your story with us at Path of Positivity. Katrina ~ Thinking of you and wishing you peace.

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HilaryJane said...

What a beautiful card. It is always challenging to deal with the loss of a beloved pet xx

Sarah said...

Oh Brenda, I am so very sorry to read this, thinking of you all xx

Glennis F said...

So sorry for you loss Brenda, a beautiful card tribute

crafty-stamper said...

Oh so sorry for your loss Brenda, but what a beautiful keepsake to Daisys memory. Love the little phial of fur.
Carol x

Lynne said...

This is beautiful Brenda. I know it’s heartbreaking when they go. We lost one of ours last year. I still like to think about him and remember his funny little ways x

Liz said...

So sorry to hear about Daisy, Brenda. It sounds like she was an amazing dog and I’m sure you have many treasured memories of her. Your card is beautiful, a lovely tribute to Daisy.
Liz xx

Gail L said...

I am sorry to hear about this Brenda.
Beautiful card for Daisy!
Sending hugs!

Denise Bryant said...

My heart goes out to you. I'm very sorry for your loss.

LesleyG said...

So sorry for your loss Brenda, my heart breaks for you all. A beautiful card, and a lovely keepsake. Take care xxx

Aquarius said...

A lovely tribute to Daisy and you can take comfort in knowing she had a wonderful life under your care - she was obviously very much loved and will. of course. be missed.

Tina Z. said...

oh, I am so sad to read this. So sorry for your loss. And such a beautiful card for her.
sending big hugs xx

Carole said...

Aaaah Brenda what a beautiful tribute to Daisy. So sorry for your loss. Pets really do become part of the family. A truly beautiful sentiment which applies to all of us. Hugs xx

Crafting Queen said...

So sorry for your loss. x

Ellibelle said...

I'm so sorry Brenda.
It's a beautiful keepsake. I know she will be in your hearts forever!

Gerrina said...

She had such a lovely and frendly feel around her, even on the pics I saw of her... I know she will be missed so much. So sorry for your loss. I'm sure she had a great life with you and the family! Your card could be an Art Page in your Art Journal and become a fine memory of her.
(Think my card+stamp came at the right time to get your mind of her for a little bit...) Hugs, Gerrina

ionabunny said...

Sorry for your loss Brenda. These furry friends do indeed leave pawprints on out hearts. A beautiful way to remember her. Hugz

Lisa said...

Brenda, my heart goes out to you. Daisy was clearly a remarkable and cherished member of your family. Your card is a beautiful tribute to her memory, and it’s touching to see how much love and care you put into creating it. Thank you for sharing this special piece with us. Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Pat said...

A beautiful card Brenda it must have been so hard to make, I am so sorry for your loss and for the family's loss.

Pat xx

Mrs.B said...

A beautiful tribute card for Daisy and adding the little phial of her fur makes it a lovely keepsake.
Our pets do become a big part of a family and are such a loss, hope your memories give you comfort.
Avril xx

Carole J said...

Oh Brenda - this post brings tears to my eyes. I can imagine how difficult a time you've had making the decision and seeing it through. She sounds like she was a remarkable and much loved pet and family member. RIP Daisy!
Your card is gorgeous and the sentiment is perfect. A beautiful tribute and keepsake.
Many thanks for sharing your special card and memories with us at the Path of Positivity. xx

Greta said...

I'm typing this through tears. So very sorry you had to say goodbye to the remarkable and beautiful Sweet Daisy May. No matter how long we have them, it isn't long enough. I know you wouldn't have wanted her not to be in your lives, even knowing the pain eventually comes. Your tribute to her is gorgeous and deserves to be framed. Sending warm wishes of comfort, Greta

Sarn said...

Oh Brenda! I am SO sorry to read of the loss of Sweet Daisy May. What a lovely tribute and touching keepsake you made for her. My heart goes out to you at this extremely sad time. xxx

pinky said...

It is a heartbreaking time Brenda but wow what a wonderful dog Daisy was! I wish I had taken some fur from our wee boy. Such a sweet idea. Your card for Daisy is just beautiful and I hope over the coming year you will be able to talk about her freely without the heartbreak.

Di said...

Oh B, I thought the tears for Daisy had stopped here but not so. This is such a moving and beautiful tribute to your gorgeous girl. The sentiment is truly from the heart and I love that Sweet Daisy May is surrounded by sunbeams.
With love and my sympathy
Di xxx

Inkyfingers said...

You've created a beautiful keepsake, Brenda and I hope creating it helped you through a difficult day. Daisy sounds like a wonderful friend and I can see why you will all miss her. I'm really sorry for your loss.
Take care of yourself,
Hugs
Carol x

Conny said...

So sorry for your loss Brenda.. They`re are always in our hearts

Marlies said...

So sorry to read about the loss of your beloved Daisy. It is always hard to say goodbye to a loved animal. You have made a beautiful card for her remembrance. Take care. Marlies x

Rainey's Craft Room said...

So sorry to read this sad post Brenda, you have created a beautiful tribute card to Daisy's memory.
Lorraine

Fikreta said...

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this.sending hugs and 💕
It's never enough time with our furry friends.
Your card is very beautiful

EmmaT said...

Beautiful card for beautiful Daisy. Never easy to say goodbye to our furry family members. Sending you lots of hugs. Emmax

coldwaters2 said...

Oh Brenda I am so very sorry to hear such sad news it is heartbreaking I know the loss will always be felt the card is truly a wonderful so is the picture I know tears will flow for some time my thoughts and love are with you
hugs
lorraine x

Mervi said...

So sorry for your loss, she was truly a family member.

Faith A at Daffodil Cards said...

I'm so late offering my condolences on the loss of Daisy, my heart goes out to you, a family member loved and never forgotten. A beautiful card and a wonderful remembrance of her coat. A lovely verse too. x